By Jen Evans
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January 16, 2025
WELCOME TO 2025! While I do love the holiday season, I am incredibly excited to dive into a new year filled with possibility and growth. I’m coming up on a birthday this month, and it has occurred to me that I am now in about the last 35% of my life (yikes!). So, in light of that terrifying reality, I’ve committed myself to 'controlling the weather' around me this year by spreading gratitude, solutions, and growth wherever possible. Seems my first step in 2025 was to jump feet first into understanding today’s child and how the digital landscape has impacted them. CHILD DEVELOPMENT AND THE DIGITAL AGE Recently, I've been deeply inspired by Jonathan Haidt's groundbreaking book, The Anxious Generation, which has me contemplating how childhood has transformed over the past 15 years…And boy he has shared some truths that have hit home for me. Haidt highlights how we've been so intent on protecting children in the physical world that we have (generally speaking) under-protected them in the virtual world. For many children, gone are the days of monkey bars, tree climbing, neighborhood play time until dinner was ready; all for reasons we understand, but true nonetheless. By focusing too much on protecting children from perceived physical dangers while neglecting the risks of the digital world, parents are inadvertently contributing to what Haidt calls "The Great Rewiring" of childhood. He believes it is causing an epidemic of mental health diagnoses among young people. A SHIFT WE CAN’T IGNORE Haidt's research is not only about the technological shift, but it also highlights a critical shift since 2010 from a play-based childhood to a phone-based experience that it is fundamentally reshaping how our children learn and play. This shift also impacts how they develop resilience, social skills, and independence (and so much more). Recently, I’ve been spending my weekends at my son’s high school wrestling tournaments. This past weekend, I saw a young child wearing a shirt that said “Be Respectful. Be Responsible. Be Safe.” Although the message was well intended, my immediate thought was what if we instead encouraged “Be Respectful. Be Responsible. Be Courageous.”  Can more courage in the physical world (with appropriate oversight of course) and more caution in the virtual world lead to more opportunities for discovery, problem solving, and confident decision making in childhood? KIDS FIRST’S COMMITMENT TO YOUR CHILD We do things intentionally different at Kids First. Giving kids the life long tools to help them develop into happy, healthy responsible adults is our primary goal. Kids First is committed to bridging the gap between the play-based childhood that existed prior to 2010 and today's phone-based childhood. We are deliberate in our instruction. We engage with children through physical activity. We create learning opportunities that allow children to build confidence in their decision making, learn risk assessment, develop physical literacy, and connect with others in meaningful face-to-face interactions. AN INVITATION TO CONNECT As we look forward to 2025, Kids First remains committed to providing an environment that counteracts the isolation and anxiety many young people experience in the digital world. We will work daily to support your child's growth - physically, emotionally, and socially. While we may not solve the problems Haidt shares, we can make a profound difference in the lives of the children and families we serve; one child, one lesson, one moment of connection at a time. We may not change the world, but we absolutely can change the world of each child who walks through our doors. PLEASE JOIN US I invite you to read The Anxious Generation, and join us for a discussion and education series. We hope to bring together parents, teachers, coaches, or anyone who may be interested in diving deeper into this overwhelming phenomenon. Looking back, I wish this book had been available to me prior to the first moment I opened up the digital world to my children. If you’d like to be a part of a discussion group, or would be interested in spearheading one, please follow this link . I know this was a lengthy email. Thank you for your time, and most especially, thank you for choosing Kids First. Gratefully, Jen --- JENNIFER EVANS President Kids First Sports Center 7900 E Kemper Rd | Cincinnati, OH 45249